Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Stereotypes

What are stereotypes anyway?I have none of a clue of it actually.Until I finally found out itis a type of logical oversimplification in which all the members of a class or set are considered to be definable by an easily distinguishable set of characteristics(Wikipedia)". Darn it,I know it's quite a hard thing to comprehend.But hey, it's Wikipedia,you get what you ask for.

In my opinion,it is basically labeling someone as someone(or something) which they are not.We stereotype someone simply because they may posses some characteristics which are unique to that group of people.(e.g. Who spikes his hair until it touches the sky and put on loud Cantonese Pop music? "Ah Beng"s.)No matter how you look at it, not ANYONE of us fits into ANY stereotypes.

Not all Americans eat burgers and hold a Cola on the other hand,not all Chinese are hardworking,not all Malays wear black shirts and "shuffle" in Queensbay Mall skating ring,not all PFS students are arrogant(I hope not),not all Heng EE students are well-discipline and not all SMK (insert any Malay VIP name here) students are gangsters.If anyone of you who are reading this have or had such stereotypes to those people,you can't be blamed.I too have my own stereotypes; I used to think girls think more of their outfit then their well being till I saw this person on American Idol.

In essence,we all are bound to stereotype a person whether we realize it or not.Look at any teenage girls who have short hair,you might think they are from PCGHS or PTHS,but there are some girls in my school who do have short hair too. We can't judge a book by it's cover.

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(And many people still wonder why FHM is still doing great in the economic crisis)

Which brings to me to my next point,WHY STEREOTYP-ING A PERSON IS BAD.Firstly,our words are as sharp as a sword.It can build relationships or destroy them in seconds.It helps to grow a person or ruin their life.You can even try a experiment if you want,although you might not want to bear the consequences.Pick someone dear to you,tell him/her something reguarly.Let's say "you can't do anything right in your life!"Wait for a few more years, I'm sure he or she "can't do anything right in his/her life".

There was a story of a father who had 2 daugthers.One of them was in her college's dean's list;while the other just got her first jail sentence.Now,what might have cause this?Turns out the girl who had her 1st jail sentence always got sinister remarks from her fathers,and then she started believing it herself,she initially just hang out with gangsters,then it went on to shoplifting then finally, her 6x6 jail cell. This my friend,is the power of our tougue.


(maybe not)

Besides cursing someone over one's life.Stereotyping had led to many controversies and chaoticincidents that has shocked the world.One them is the Rwanda Genocide,The "Tutsi" who fought with the "Hutu"in the Rwandan Civil War.The war gave rise to the term Hutu Power and this led to ethic tensions as The Tutsi intended to enslave the Hutu and rule over the country as the prime race.As the result,thousands and thoudsand of people have died not only from the genocide itself, but from epidemic diseases caught in Refugee camps and AIDS.Heck,there's even a movie about it.


(Are you smarter than a 5th grader?Yeah?Then guess what make the dip?)

Not only that, Iranians have complained about the movie "300"'s depiction of the Syrians as "decadent, sexually flamboyant and evil in contrast to the noble Greeks".

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(I don't intend to go to bed to you,but the producers made me do this)


Nevertheless,"We are made in the image of God".So that disqualifies us as someone who has authority to judge people,cause we all the same.We may have different skin colour,preferences,stand on politics or choosing either Adam Lamber or Kris Allen but we all are human beings in the end.Inside;and outside.Besides,God will do the judging when the time comes.In the meantime,let's witness miracles happen on Wimbledon.


(Or maybe not)

Monday, June 29, 2009

5 Thoughts of the Week X

Gosh...I better start learning new Roman Numerals...

Sorry that I forgot to post it up last week!!!


Yesterday's outing was great.I get to talk with her and it went well. XD

I NEVER FAILED ANY OF MY SUBJECTS!!!!

Now I have to gear up for trial exams..

Friday, June 19, 2009

Collection of resume blunders

From: Readers Digest, June 2009

"Dear Sir or Madman":

"I am sure you have looked through several resumes with the same information about work experience,education,and references.I am not going to give you any of that stuff."

"I would love to interview for the position of (insert job title here).If you grant me an interview of (insert job title here),I feel confident you'll see why I'm the right person for the job." "My mother delivered me without anesthesia so I have an IQ of 146 and therefore can learn anything."

"I enjoy working closely with customers,and my pleasant demeanor helps them feel comfortable and relaxed- not afraid.""I realize that my total lack of appropriate experience may concern those considering me for employment." But "I have integrity,so I will not steal office supplies and take them home."

"Please don't regard my 14 position as job-hopping.I never once quit a job." "They stopped paying me". "In my next life,I will be a professional backup dancer or a rabbi," but for now "I am attacking my resume for you to review." "I realize that my resume is no longer exemplary thanks to my family destroying the computer file." Nevertheless, "here are my qualifications for you to overlook."

'Thank you for your considerations.Hope to hear from you shorty!"


Sincerely,

Hapless Job Seeker

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

5 Thoughts of the Week VIIII

I know, it's long overdue...but better late than never..

Leona Lewis- Run. A timeless classic. :D

I don't know what to do.Her friends say she felt "nei jiu".(Hurt in inside). Geesh,I thought I'll be the one with a broken heart....


My exam results are coming out.Let's prepare for a rollarcoaster ride,Final Destination-style.

Mirror Cube looks cool!!

Friday, June 12, 2009

It was only a Dream

Wrote this poem during exam.I finished Sivik paper early by 1 hour.So, I used that free time to pen this poem.Do comment on any mistakes,I'll be glad to get some advice also. :)

It was only a Dream...

It was only a dream,
of you leaning next to me;
Talking about the moments we had,
staring upon the fireplace.

How great that fire was!
With such warmth and tender,
no tundra for us to wept forever,
If only it was a reality.

It was only a dream,
that picture we took together,
and that complexion of yours,
white as show and full of joy,
but ever so shy,
tempting the hardest of steel,
to melt away in compassion.

It was only a dream,
of that rainy day I remembered,
so chilly yet so warm,
something an eternity will I not find,
until the answer was resting by my shoulder,
and what a moment was that I ponder.

How great that moment it had to be,
until I finally realized,
it probably was never meant to be;
Because it was only a dream,
but one I will always cherish,
till the last of my breath.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Smile

Adrian sent me this SMS.I mean, I know most of the part,but don't really know the whole meaning.Thank god, someone helped me to translate the whole thing. Word by word. XD
Thanks Sin Mun!!

SMILE

Is the easier way to show…

Honesty..

Gladness...

And..

is eternal..it will always be remembered...

Whatever that has happened(good,bad,tired,touching or whatever else)]

Just Smile....


Lets a smile always be with you no matter where you are..

You too, must keep on smiling for the world to see.

I know you are very self-conscious(Am i??? Yes you are!)

Yes or no?? Haha....it's rhetorical...

Even when we are far apart...

Walking our own daily lives....

But, I have something important to give to you...

You MUST use it whenever you can...

I know you will, you always will...



Thx for reading…^^

Sunday, June 7, 2009

5 Thoughts of the Week VIII

I seriously don't have the mood to figure out 5 thoughts worth mentioning....

Except for the fact I may never ever get her....

And foolishly tell out who I liked....


And so I went to my scout camp for a "self-imposed exile" from all the" hoo-haa" that happened..

I actually said 4 thoughts already???Cool....this would be no.5!!